I've only just seen this thread so apologies for that. My fiance was made redundant last November and still hunting for a job. My fiance has commented once that he feels like he is letting me down and i told him not to worry, luckily we have saved up for the wedding for about ten years (been together 16 years this year) but we have had to trim down some of our trimmings. The most important thing is talking to each other, love is what matters not money - for richer for poorer. I hope you get everything sorted. x