OK! Â i need to get my butt in gear and get my sandals & other little things like finalize our centerpieces etc! is there like a wedding list somewhere, where it lists what to do etc like dress, shoes, photographer, hotel, invites, just everything??? i'm starting to think that there is more left to do that i'm leaving out...... HELP, i know i'm like 4.5 months to go but... i feel as tho i'm missing stuff..