Hey there,
I'm getting married there on June 30th - it's coming up fast!
If you're not having your event at a restaurant, (e.g. baja norte or the beach) you will have to pay for the food. I believe it was something like $50pp. I believe the package only covers wine - mixed drinks are not included. I don't mind tellling my guests that they have to go to the bar to get their own mixed drinks. I also heard that if you tip the waiters they'll just bring them to you. I can't remember the exact price for open bar - but I do remember it was something ridiculous...per person, per hour.
I'm bringing my own photographer from Toronto - he's staying with us so there was no problem with bringing him. As for the DJ, we are using our own iPod. Also, we were allowed to select our 4pm timeslot to get married.
Daniella appears to be gone now. Karla has started emailing me as well and she is VERY slow at responding. I'm hoping she'll get better since our wedding is now only 2 months away!