I say do whatever makes you happy and I guess I should listen to my advice...as we were planning on just going away just us two and then everyone (family and friends) were like, "oh we want to come." So now, instead of just thinking of only us, I have to consider what will be feasible for everyone else i.e. budgets, children allowed etc. So now my head is about to explode trying to pick the "right" resort. I can't even decide on a darn destination! The short version of this is do whatever the heck YOU and your FI want to do!! Good luck and keep us updated:)