I got engaged on Thanksgiving and my wedding is next june (2010) and I hate waiting. I've never been good at waiting for anything. I want to live with him already and start our lives together. I've never lived on my own and everywhere I go, I get ideas for our home or ideas for what I'd cook for dinner. I put my foot down, though, and said I wont move in til the wedding (I just always thought of the wedding as the day you start your lives together). So, yeah, I know how you feel! And I also hate when FI has to go home at night!