heyy everyone!! I'm having my wedding at Dreams June 12, 2010. Does anyone know how it works if its more than 40 ppl? Like is there a bigger variety of food in a buffet or is there one appetizer, one entree, and everyone has to pour themselves soup? I'm really scared that it wont be as elegant and theres no way to cut the list down...my mom is inviting EVERYONE! Can someone please give me some feedback?