~Stephanie~

Shannon and Chris, thank you for the update, it was so sweet of you to check in with us. I'm so sorry that some of your guests have cancelled. I hope Shannon is doing ok with that (we brides tend to get pretty emotional ). If there is anything you need from us please let us know!

OMG girls, I'm so sorry! I can't stop tearing up. I don't even know what to say. Can you girls taking canada flights fly into the states and then fly out to Mexico from here on flights that aren't cancelled? Please keep us posted.

Ditto Lisa... I broke down this morning to FI, I feel just aweful for all the brides. FI started ranting about the Media blowing it out of proportion and I was surprised he was being so supportive and concerned. I have been thinking about it non-stop, I wish there was something I could do. I just simply can not imagine what everyone is going through

Quote: Originally Posted by istephiez I am really angry and upset because I can't take everyones comments about me making the best of this and that its going to be beautiful. Its so not something that I feel I am or should be expected to get over and readjust the plan and be excited about when this is just going down so quickly. I don't know that I will get over it to be honest and we can't even afford the hotels in the the states which is a HUGE reason we chose to do Mexico in the first place....I'm proud of you girls for planning on going as is I have a feeling that this isn't going to be up to me if I want to do the same based on how the family is responding... Steph- Yell, scream, curse, cry, whatever you need to do. I honestly don't know how you are even holding it together this much. And I get it, as much as everyone has good intentions behind their supportive comments and words you don't want things to change damn it! You want eveything to go as planned and changing the plans is not an option and even though it only matters if you two are there that is a load of horseshit because you and I both know that we want everyone there because that is what the plan was and that is what is important! I would feel the same way- and you have every right to feel the way you do. Do you have any options of pushing back the date or will you incur fees or lose your money? I know its not ideal but if they would let you push it back you could still have your wedding with everyone? Maybe you have other complications then? Whatever you do try and stick with as much of that plan as you can that makes you happy. Maybe you can change to Jamaica or something, I think the price is about the same? I am here if you need me, PM if you need anything! Big Hugs!

Wow, that's so pretty! Can't wait to see your fitting pictures!

I like the 2nd dress style better, the one in Pink.

Welcome Michelle! You found us! This thread will take forever to read through but there is some helpful info in here if you still have unanswered questions!

Hi Michelle, to the forum! Good Luck with your planning!

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Hi Michelle, welcome! I am also a Royal bride! Come join us on our thread for this resort! http://bestdestinationwedding.com/forum/t17108

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Shannon what day do you leave hun?- Edit, nevermind you just answered that!

Sloan you crack me up! Loved your review! Congrats Mrs!

This is the cancellation policy on their website, I wonder if they will make any exceptions due to swing flu? "Due to credit card fees, the equivalent of 10% of the total amount of the reservation will be charged if the reservation is cancelled 15 days prior to the arrival date. Minimum 2 night charge for reservations cancelled 14-1 day prior to arrival date. Cancellations made within 24 hrs prior to arrival or no shows are 100% non-refundable. Some hotels may have specific cancellation policies for reservations during Christmas, New Year and Easter Week. Please request further details when booking." I'm sorry that you girls are going through this, I don't even know what to say to make you feel better. If it were me I don't think anything would help. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help in any way. Shannon, what day do you leave? Are you gone yet?

Good Luck Ladies! Is there any way to vote for more than one?! Such a hard decision!