Quote: Originally Posted by istephiez I am really angry and upset because I can't take everyones comments about me making the best of this and that its going to be beautiful. Its so not something that I feel I am or should be expected to get over and readjust the plan and be excited about when this is just going down so quickly. I don't know that I will get over it to be honest and we can't even afford the hotels in the the states which is a HUGE reason we chose to do Mexico in the first place....I'm proud of you girls for planning on going as is I have a feeling that this isn't going to be up to me if I want to do the same based on how the family is responding... Steph- Yell, scream, curse, cry, whatever you need to do. I honestly don't know how you are even holding it together this much. And I get it, as much as everyone has good intentions behind their supportive comments and words you don't want things to change damn it! You want eveything to go as planned and changing the plans is not an option and even though it only matters if you two are there that is a load of horseshit because you and I both know that we want everyone there because that is what the plan was and that is what is important! I would feel the same way- and you have every right to feel the way you do.
Do you have any options of pushing back the date or will you incur fees or lose your money? I know its not ideal but if they would let you push it back you could still have your wedding with everyone? Maybe you have other complications then? Whatever you do try and stick with as much of that plan as you can that makes you happy. Maybe you can change to Jamaica or something, I think the price is about the same?
I am here if you need me, PM if you need anything! Big Hugs!