Honestly, I chose November because I could take 2 weeks off work and not get bogged down with the catch up when I got home. Also, I chose the 11th because it's Rememberance Day. That way he has no excuse to forget when we got married! It only took him 6 years to remember my birthday. Hopefully, since it's a holiday he might have a shot at remembering it! But knowing him, he'll forget.