i am so glad you threw this out there Christie! I was having the same thoughts...let me share my"game plan" (you know, if everything goes as planned, which it never does! haha)
wedding @ 1pm (or somewhere around this time)
after the wedding:
bride/groom/party: pictures
guests: having dinner/downtime at a bar or resteraunt (perhaps even changing clothes)
around 6pm: meet back up with guests (depending on budget perhaps in a nice white sundress, I'm not gunna want to wear a huge puffy HOT dress the whole night!) and have the appetizer/drink/cake reception Jennifer was talking about including our first dance...
but that's just me- AND i'm still trying to figure out where to fit in TTD...I'm thinking the day after at dunns river falls...