Welcome and Congrats!! I know you mentioned hte west coast,but I have known many brides who fly from Cali to the Caribbean. Anguilla, BWI is fabulous and if you are not looking for high-end resorts, you can easily rent a villa there also. Many come wiht maids and also Chefs, private pools, etc. Sheriva is on the west end of the island a absolutely wonderful!! Best wishes for a great wedding!