big3n09

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six flags : America

Hello All!!! Name: Ti'Keya and Daryll Resort: Moon Dance Cliffs Date: May 15, 2010 In Jamaica: May 13 -19, 2010

I agree the congress woman said it best! How ironic is that the word CHANGE has become so prevalent. I'm a firm believer of everything happens for a reason and I just hope we ALL are getting the message for the betterment of ALL of us.

3 weddings to go to : next year

Finally he went and talked to my father yesterday. FI said my father said yes before he even opened his mouth and that my father was very open with him. FI is a procrastinator and sometimes I feel like I have to put fire under his a$$ but to me that takes the genuineness out of things. My father was aware of us wanting to get married and I didn't want FI to ask for permission per say but to just have a conversation with him about it because of the relationship I have with him and I agree it's the respectful thing to do. So one more thing off the list with a million more to go, LOL! Thank you all for the advice and input, happy planning/living to you all!

I'm assuming your going to just make the deposit to hold all the rooms you want, if so what's supposed to happen is when your guest call to get the rooms and give their info and pay she credits that to your room. If your stay is going to be less than $5000 then she should be crediting you with a check or what you will need to pay when you get there for the dj/band, flowers, decor ect. What I did was made a deposit on only 5 rooms for immediate family and everyone else I gave a date when they needed to at least make there deposit by. If he price is not going to change I would have them make their own deposits. I only did the 5 rooms because I wanted to get the grand opening rate.

staying on the BDW Forum way to many hours : soaking up information

I hope things get better the big day will be perfect!

parties : need to go to one

hunting : birds

WOW, that's a nice story!

I felt like sending invitations to everyone was a waste of money so we have a website and then STD will go to mostly everyone. I will be doing my actual invitations about 6-8 weeks out and they will go to those who have booked travel. This site has just about any kind of DIY wedding project you can think of, there are some very creative and talented people on here.

Star : light

Congrats and welcome! Finding a location I agree is the hardest being as though you have soooo many options. Once you narrow that down it shouldn't be as stressful. Make a list of all of must haves and stick to it crossing out places that don't offer what you want and prices a very important as well. Hope that helps some and good luck!

but I don't : have time

weekend : almost over

best friends : associates

Good thread, FI wants to do one and I haven't put any thought into it but I think it would be fun. I'll be back.............

Ok here it is!!! Ti'Keya & Daryll - wedding website by mywedding.com I did borrow some info from you lovely BDW ladies and I def don't mind you borrowing from me! Happy planning to you all!

What did FI have to say about the situation. I agree you should have a talk with them and see where their minds are because you are right it is YOUR wedding. I would see if the talk works then I would nicely have to excuse them if they continue to be a problem. It doesn't sound like you guys are that close which means it shouldn't affect your relationship that much. I do understand you want to blend with his family and this is a good way to start but it may have to be done another way at another time. Hope everything works out for you guys!

breakfast : want some

I understand how feeling like you are being put on the back burner can hurt and her putting you on a guilt trip. Like someone else said you can't please everybody and life must go on so if you and FI agree on keeping the appts then so be it and people will have to get over it. I wouldn't strees over it maybe when the day actually arrives they will check with his schedule and if he already has palns then she may still go, I just wouldn't even think too much about it anymore. She has her feelings about the situation and you have yours and it doesn't make either of you wrong, it just is what it is!

I agree with KLC77 sometimes people are dealing with their own issues and they misdirect their feelings. I would talk to her again about her and whatever she may be dealing with, you may be surprised at what she says. My BF was hesitant to tell me about her alternative lifestyle and I was hurt that she thought I would look at her any different, but actually when we talked about it she admitted it was her own insecurities. Things have changed between us she didn't come to my graduation this past weekend and I missed her last birthday party. I still love her the same and just accept that our relationship has changed and know how to carry things between us. I have noticed some other strange behavior from close people and I have to understand they feel like our relationship is going to change because to some degree it is. Most people struggle with change because they don't know what to expect but life must go on and ultimatley things are gonna change. Good luck with your situation.

I agree that his mother would want to see her son because to her that's priority, that is her child. For you picking your dress is priority and that is fine. I would keep my appointment and if they come good if not fine. It's not like their not coming for a good reason and I don't think they should feel like you should feel the same way about seeing you FBIL as they do, your relationship with him I'm sure is different. What did you FI have to say about it, my feelings and his would be most important.