big3n09

Welcome and congrats!

Welcome and congrats!

Welcome and congrats!

Welcome and congrats!

Welcome and congrats!

I just feel sorry for the kids because they will be the one's who suffer and they are innocent to the mess she decided to create out of bad judgment. As far as I'm concerned if she already had 6 kids and living with her parent and needing government assistance, she should have not had anymore children bottom line. I'm sorry but I just don't believe that you can give the necessary attention to all those children especially in her situation and with her circumstances. I mean she has a disability and then 2 children with disabilities, come on! I'm also trying to figure out what was going on in her Doctor's head; I mean what was he thinking. My personal opinion is that there should be more done about people just having babies just because they want one that's not a good enough reason. I mean most things require a license, a course, training, etc. but to have kids it's like go right ahead. I don't have kids and until I at least feel 100% positive that it is something I want and I am ready to take on full responsibility of, I won't be and that's fine with me. I just feel that too many people have kids for the wrong reasons, which should be to provide them with love, time and attention, and to help them become the best person they can possibly be by all means necessary.

thanks for the info!

Good job and thanks for the info!

OMG! Thanks for the template!

Welcome and congrats, good luck!

Welcome and congrats!

Welcome and congrats, wishing you much luck with planning!

Welcome and congrats, wishing you much luck with planning!

Welcome and congrats, wishing you much luck with planning!

Welcome and congrats, wishing you much luck with planning!

Welcome and congrats, wishing you much luck with planning!

Welcome and congrats, wishing you much luck with planning!

Welcome and congrats, wishing you much luck with planning!

Welcome and congrats, wishing you much luck with planning!

Welcome and congrats, wishing you much luck with planning!

Welcome and congrats, wishing you much luck with planning!

Trip advisor has several hotel options you may want to look there and further around on this site. The problem you may run into is your options are going to be limited since you want to bring you own photographer. Most places do not allow it because it's an insurance issue.

Thank you all soooo much! I need the support because I am a very independent person and he has issues with that but if I can't get his cooperation, what am I supposed to do. I guess I'll be doing what I want to do and he'll find out about it later. I don't like to ask anyone for anything so I am and will be planning by myself looks like. Well at least that way I know it will be how I want it to be and what I like. I won't let it bother me too much for now he will be on a need to know basis and maybe as time gets closer or we really get the ball rolling I will get some help. We'll see, thanks again!

FI is not acting like I guess I want him to. I keep asking him about things to make sure it's not all about me, I mean it's supposed to be WE now. I also know the minute he doesn't like something I did or picked he is gonna have something to say when it's too late. I also want his opinion on things so I ask what he thinks or suggest, his response, WHATEVER It's making me feel like I'm pressuring him on things to the point I feel like I don't want to bring anything up at all. So I'm fustrated because I'm trying to plan and he is not being as helpful as I would like. Now granted he is not a planner he does things last minute but if I ask for your opinion or a suggestion give me one! Several people keep telling me that's how men are and it's what you want but I'm not comfortable with that. I have seen and heard of grooms that were more interested and involved. We already have pushed the date back 9 months and have been together 5yrs. I'm not settling for no thrown together last min event that's not my style nor did I want a big elaborate event, I wasn't even sure I would ever get married, the DW was his idea but now he doesn't seemed that interested in planning it. Thanks for letting me VENT

Stay positive and try to avoid reading or hearing any negative remarks about what you both have decided on. You can't please everyone and in this case you don't need to. If there being negative now they may act that way on your big day so it would be better without them there any how. AVOID ALL HATERS!!! They either want to come, support, and have a goodtime or stay home and HATE!!! Tell them that!