Quote: Originally Posted by Duchess I
My solution is that DH and I dont keep all of our money together. We have a joint account for bills and things that we split, the rest is our own. I personally think its a very modern way to eliminate the biggest fight in most marriages. Plus, its not the time anymore where women dont have their own money. I make plenty, and dont want him to have anything to say about it when I buy shoes. Except that I am out of closet space, that he can say! And if he wants to lend money to deadbeats or buy video games, whatev!!! I totally agree with you, me and FI are planning to set up a joint account for bills and emergency account. I plan to have a seperate account for the thngs I want to do I have had a job since I was 15 and used to having some of my own money. I would never hide my account information from him or withhold any money from him but on a daily basis I think it would create less problems if we have seperate accounts for our little vices we have. I like to shop and buy nice things he likes to gamble and we both know our limits so we will keep our fund for those things seperate.