Quote: Originally Posted by uspoiledme My FI and I can't agree on what is best. He wants our premarital counselor, who is also a preacher, to marry us here b4 going 2 Jamaica. I don't want the extra step, but it's important to him. What 2 do
I am thinking about doing the same thing. I don't think FI would have a problem with it either. I would want it to just be the 3 of us and I don't feel like anybody has to know unless they ask, which they probably will not. Is there any specific reason you don't want to other than it's an extra step? Will it make you feel different in some way?