Awww, brandynd... I'm so sorry that nobody was around during your time of need. I hope that you are feeling better now. In answer to your question, yes, at least I think, it is normal to feel frazzled. We each have our own "little things" that seem to turn into "big things" that totally pile up and make us feel like we are going to lose it. At the time, they seem so important and worth fighting over but then later make you say, "WTH?".
Take a deep breath, each issue will work out. It may seem early to you to be frazzled but look at the positive side, you have time to work them all out . (I'm sure you have already scrubbed the begging stain ) Hang in there, it will all be fine.
Hmmmm, could you possibly enlist another MOH and transfer the trip to her?
Gorgeous! It looks great on you.