im in the same situation,we have been leaving together for 5yrs, and we have everything. But i am having the shower, and everyone is asking me where i have registered. I think what im going to do, is do a very very small registry to freshen up some of my kithcen stuff and maybe do the honeyfund, like i said each item from BedBathandBeyond probably will be 5-10$, so maybe people who dont feel comfortable bringing a printout in the envelope for the honeyfund gift, can just attach it to a small storage container etc...this way i can still open something..