I feel kind of silly and have to apologize b/c I'm still new to this forum. I went back through and re-read from the beginning of the posts and got my answers to my last post.
I do have to say that I did contact Bolongo Bay Beach Resort and after talking to my FI he agrees its sounds like what we had in mind. But I do wonder if a villa would be the way to go. I think we are still planning on inviting the same amount of guests to the DW as we originally had plan for a local wedding but I would guess maybe 20-30 ppl will go. But who knows, I may have my head in the clouds, lol