Thanks to all the ideas from other DB's on this forum, I decided to make the wedding party invites myself...
For my MOH and BM I made a message in a bottle as a way to ask them to stand up for me...
Sorry about the picture, but it's a bottle with a rolled scroll that I burned and typed a cute poem. I filled with sand and shells.
For the groomsmen, I bought each a cuban cigar that came in a glass test tube and again burned the edges of the paper.
The girls loved them, and I have yet to give to the guys...