Quote: Originally Posted by shellb Can someone tell me what the secret to not giving a crap about things in general?
You know I had taken the attitude that as long as my FI and I were there for the big day everything else was a bonus. Today, I log in to my facebook and see one of my good friends is going to Mexico next month when she had said a few months ago they'd love to go to our wedding but there was no way they could because they just bought a house, had all these extra expenses, etc. I was perfectly ok with that, but when I read her status today I felt like someone kicked me. I am happy that they are going to Mexico for a trip. I think people should do what makes them happy, but why not tell me from the beginning instead of a BS excuse.
My FI tells my I let things get to me too much and take too much to heart. SO, can someone teach me or tell me the secret to not giving a crap because I seem to be losing the battle especially when it comes to this DW and people's behavior? i so completley agree with you im getting married in cuba and my friend wanted a big holiday this year so she decided to come to the hotel next door to us and come the week before us so they still got there own holiday and pick there own hotel and got there own holiday as well as coming to the wedding . so i would feel like that if they said what your friend did then still went and missed the wedding that would piss me off !!!