I'm looking for the wording that you all used for the "longer" version of the STD. Not something short and cute you would put on a magnet or postcard but the wording that suggests - hey, we're sending these out now so you can give us a tentative heads up/feedback if you're planning on coming so we can plan the logistics of the big day - sort of thing....
Anyone?
I'm budgeting for 40 people and while I understand things can change in 12 months, I'd like to know who on the "B" list I can bump up to the "A" list, etc. Our wedding is in Northern Michigan and while it's only 9 hours drive time from where we live, I'd like to give some of those "B" list invitees the ability to move up if a spot opens so they can lock in the good hotel rates.....
Jeni