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OK Ladies after today I think I'm the expert on being a a big breasted chick with a chiffon sweetheart neckline dress. To start off any ladies who are looking at sweetheart neckline dress beware if your breast are as big as mine bc there are no bras on earth that will really work. I have been back in forth from my bridal boutique to my lingerie store 2x today and 1x yesterday. The bustier I bought yesterday didn't work bc the cups were too high for my sweetheart neckline and the boning in the bustier showed in my chiffon gown. So I had to return that and end up with a 34G strapless bra. The seamstress is adding some kind of hook in the inside middle front of my gown so that the bra will snap into the gown. She also has to alter it so that the bra does not show on the sides... This has been the craziest experience. So again my advice to all of you is be careful with you neckline if you have over a DDD bra size bc realistically there are no bras that will work (i wish that would have been explained to me when I was gown shopping) Nonetheless I feel that everything will work out. You guys would have seen me crying while driving today... Oh also I have to now wear a pair of spanx for tummy control and smoothness. Also my "girls" don't get in the way for me. I am so used to them that they are just a part of life. They don't bother me at all. My only issue is the steps bc I live in a 3 story house and my office is on the 3rd floor... I'd be a fool to run up or down the steps lol. My FI always jokes that I forced him to be a breast man bc i have so much to go around, but in my opinion they aren't even that big haha....

Welcome Dee. We have alot in common including Janelle and Lindquist Beach and the cruise lol. I felt the same way about Janelle in the beginning... Happy Planning...

We found our vows online and tweaked them a bit. Also our pastor is going on the cruise with us. So he will be marrying us.

We are getting married on an 8 day cruise. To be honest we weren't expecting alotta ppl to go since it was so long but we have 40 ppl going and we are so excited. We have cruised with family before and as was stated earlier the ship is so big that we don't have to see ppl very often if we don't want to. We visit 5 islands and we plan to be alone on 2. Then we're doing St thomas for the wedding and san juan for the bach parties and lastly on nassua we're going to this small restaurant with our immediate family. We ultimately decided on our dream cruise and felt very blessed that so many ppl want to share in this time of joy with us.

No I'm normally a 36 but had to get a 32 in the bustier. I honestly don't feel them thou. I guess I'm so used to having larger breast. It def runs in my family. My gma's a c cup but she had a reduction. Everyone else's are over D cup. I do have back problems but I've never associated them with my breast. But now I'm starting to wonder.

OMG Ladies I went to get my wedding undoes today (my 1st fitting is tomm YAY!!!) anywayz.. I was very wrong ab my correct bra size... I really wear a 36 G... Horrible right. The funny thing is is that the bustier I got was a size 32 G haha, due to the way ti was made. My gown has a sweetheart neckline so the bustier I got may not fit. But I'm able to return it if necessary and they can order me something that works better...

Yea that song was beautiful... Mesita Sorry for just posting but I received the Pashminas last week. I'm giving them to my MOH, BM and Jr BM and the last one is mine lol. I want to find a little orange scarf for my FG to go in her gift bag.

Hey ladies. Thanks for all your help on this issue. As of date. We will be receiving our $300 deposit back for the BM's cruise. However, we now have an uncle who wants to go as well. So if the cruise fares go down we may book the BM with my uncle. But we are so not stressing this issue anymore. We have accepted that he won't be there. But if by our next pay period the prices have dropped or something we may be rebooking him.

I was supposed to go today (I'm on vacay all week) but I was shopping for shoes for my girls so we never got around to ME!!! :-( lol. So I'm gonna go either tomm or wed. When i called to schedule an appt (no appts needed and the lady on the phone was soo friendly) the lady explained the return policy which is that you can only get a refund within 2 days, after that exchange only. I always thought that u could return undies... My fitting is on Thurs so if I need to return it I will still be in my 2 day range if I go tomm, but I'm not expecting to return anything. That would be weird... When are you going?

I"ve paid on OTC with my cc it's very safe... If that help good luck. Also they have the greatest return policy. They say just donate the product to charity and they refund your $$$...

Bosi I'm not sure you can download with Noob status. Check the regs I know things changed recently. So post away.... And eventually you'll be able to do everything. Happy Planning

Hey Lisa could you send me the package I will PM you my email addy.

I am going to a store here in Towson MD called Lingerie Lingerie tomm to be fit for my wedding undies (well shapewear lol). When i get back I'll let you know what my options were. I have no idea what I should spend tho...

Hey ladies I want to participate, but can't host this season. I know a few ladies were willing to host so that shouldn't be a problem. I am so excited that this has started back up. My wedding is in Nov and my first gown fitting is this Thurs 8.27....

Wow everything was awesome.

Thanks Jennifer I just emailed you lol. I want to sign up for this.

Hey ladies I think I did alotta bitching ab my weight in the biggest loser forums but bc most girls were tryna lose weight i felt bad ab it. My FI is a big guy and he loves my size. When i was working out (for like one week lol) he thought my thighs were getting smaller and he freaked out. He never knew the small me. But up until my jr year in college I was 122lbs, (we met my 3rd semester as a senior lol)... Now I'm pushing 190. I have truly given up on trying to lose weight. But I do want to try to maintain where I am. I want to get a new swimsuit as well. I got 2 last summer but one got ruined. I then got one more from marshalls so the 2 I have are one pieces. I want to get a new tankini before our wedding cruise.

Hey Ladies Just found this thread. I would call myself curvy, but I'm not into stores lie Lane Bryant. I normally shop at Old Navy, Target, Cloud 9, H&M and Delias, then i do Sears and JCPenney's for dresses. I wear between a size 12-14 however I wear a 36DDD and I have a big butt, tummy and big thighs... Shopping for me is a big mess. I'm so glad I found this thread, now I don't feel alone.

I am so excited to lose this last name. I ave no reationship with my father or his family sso there's no attachment to the last name at all. I am going from Fleming to Willis. I think my name flows better with my current last name and I don't make cute W's like I do cute F's but I'll learn lol... We're down to 81 days... I am so excited. Ana De Roux has started my program fans and I just have to create centerpieces and come up with a favor and I'm all done besides payments. Our cruise balance is due Monday but we paid it off today!!! Now we just have to pay $$$ to our WC....

I think he should have enuf time to get his passport (if it gets rushed), but realistically it's not that big of a deal since we are on a cruise. The rule is constantly being pushed back ab whens it's mandatory to have the passport for cruise leaving and returning to the US. No he's never come out and asked us to pay for his entire trip. Just his deposit which he was supposed to pay back but we told him that we didn't need it. I really have no problem paying for a member of the bridal party. We put $$ on the entire bridal party's trips. We really want him there so we would have paid for his entire trip flight everything, if we knew in advance. But we just really can't do it right now. We have mortgage and other bills coming out so we can't do it by Monday. (We are not cc users we want no wedding debt after the wedding and we have been doing good with this thus far). This is really hard. They are at practice now. So hopefully magically fi will come home with a plan. But the BM just sold one of his keyboards to pay his bills so I know he cant come up with the $$$... It's up to us.

OMG I really feel you on this one. but my FI and I have done it to ourselves alotta the time. Over the course of our engagement I've moved in with him seemed like a great way to save. He also let me quit my parttime job (i made alotta $$ but hated the job)... No joke the week after i quit my job we decided to purchase a timeshare... We went for a timeshare mtg for the weekend. On the ride home from getting the timeshare our Bestman called my fi and told him that they had lost their parttime jobs. We went from 4 jobs to 2 jobs in 1 week. Then my car needed to be fixed (big $$ but we couldn't afford a new one so) we got a pitbull which was sick and a costly investment but we love her, pipes burst in the house umm what else oh yea my fi came up with a new expensive hobby like every other month, he needed a new bass guitar (parttime work so mandatory) he needed a new laptop (he's a systems engineer so mandatory) omg soo much stuff has happened to us since we've been planning this wedding that we have to dip into his investments to pay for the wedding.... We really didn't want to have to do that but we really are sticking with our goal of no wedding debt (ie cc bills) after the wedding. We are paying all cash!!!

OMG I feel the same way. While I love parts of my gown i think the front looks really stupid. but i have my first fitting next week and my dress is waaaay to big so hopefully next week it'll look better to me. But if not oh well I'm stuck with it. Its a Mori lee and I like it one day and hate it the next...

I worked at Walmart in college and I asked for the day off for my great grandmother's 80th birthday. Well they didnt give it to me bc I requested it from the wrong person. I then told them oh well your prob bc I won't be here... The managers went off on me and told me I'd be coached if I didn't show up. Clearly I didn't show up... They coached me and I quit the next week. Walmart sux as an employer hahaha. J/K i really quit bc I needed to study for finals. If you're a good employee just tell you're not coming in. But if they fire for that kinda stuff be careful... I would also stress the fact that you aren't to be working 3 days in a row.... Good Luck.

Its funny how all the girls who are under like 3 months are saying it stresses them out and then the girls over and in love with it hahahha. It really does stress me out (not bad enuf to take it down tho, just enuf to send chills down my spine). And I have different ones in different places. So the one on here that shows months freaks me out. But the one on my website shows day, And I'm at 83 days so that seems way better and like 2 months and 3 weeks. Esp since I started planning at 11 months you know hahaha.

Wow Holly I'm sorry to hear about this. Just stay positive...