Meg you did better than me I had no rsvp date on my invites, I worked so hard with Ana on my invites yet never put an rsvp date so now the rsvp/booking date has passed (it was 3.1.09) yet ppl who I dont talk to regularly or who dont have email (so they havent checked my website) are still trying to book etc. it's a big mess, but basically I'm just like whatever. If they book late the price is more expensive but I cant let everything stress me out you know.