Oh come on Bride Danielle! You are the BRIDE!!! Wear whatever makes you feel fabulous and looking good!!!
You can try Strapless A-line, Strapless Mermaid, Strapless Trumpet or Strapless Sheath, Strapless Ball Gown & even Strapless Cocktail Dress! It isn't like there is only one style of Strapless gown. Also you can try on different material (lace/silk/chiffon) and play with different accessories! There got to be something that looks flattering on YOU!!!
Ignore the "fashionista"!