I like #2 as well! It's SO pretty!
I didn't do a garter, but I agree that you can still throw in as much of those traditional aspects of a big wedding. Hey - if you have to stand and throw it over the balcony onto the beach go for it! It's all about making the day yours.
I actually bought a veil and paid to have it altered just perfectly. When I got to the resort and had a hair trial, she put it on and I just wasn't feeling it. I have seen so many beautiful brides get married on the beach with all different veils, but I say try one on and if it feels right go for it, if not, don't do it. I decided the day of my wedding to not wear my veil, and opted for a silk flower in my hair instead and I was SO happy!