Quote: Originally Posted by MarieSam Maybe it's just me but I don't think there should really be a "guideline" or "according to etiquette" price tag when it comes to giving your bridal party gifts. I think gifts are given from the heart and should be based on each bride/groom's budget. In essence a destination wedding in itself is outside the norm of the traditional wedding format, so I think it should be contingent on what you feel is appropriate. Of course I'd love to give my gals the world and spoil them rotten, who wouldn't? But I'm not gonna break the bank because some book tells me to.
In my case, I have 10 bridesmaids, including my maid of honors and my junior bridesmaid. I also have 2 potential flowers girls (they're not 100% coming at this point). If I went along with the guideline I'd be totally broke therefore etiquette can kiss my ass, lol. So instead I have collectively bought things that I have seen along the planning process that I thought the gals would like -- proudly most of them during super duper sales!
1) bamboo bags $5.00 each (sale)
2) day of clutches $6.00 each (sale)
3) their wedding shoes - ranges from $18 to $32 each
4) wedding reception flip flops to match their dresses - $2.50 each (sale)
5) beach wraps - got these for a ridiculous sale at $1.50 to $2 each
6) tank dresses $7 each (sale)
7) body butters $1.50 each
8 ) palmer's cocoa butter lip balms $1 each (ebay)
9) paying for half of their wedding day makeup/hair $35 each - yep I got a fabulous deal for a traveling hair/makeup artist!
10) deliciously scented candles $1.88 each (sale)
* thinking about getting pashminas for the gals too!!!
Im so impressed!! Do you have any suggestions where to find some of the great sales listed above??