I tried on like 60 some dresses, and each place I went I would have 1 or 2 favorites. There was one that I really liked for months but then decided to go on one more appt and foudn "the one" tears and all.
I did think maybe I am just not that girl that gets all googly over a dress, but as I kept going I did eventually find one that makes me feeling amazing each time I look at it.
As far as the train goes, keep it if you want it, there are no rules when it comes to a DW, that is the great part, you can do whatever you want to.