Quote: Originally Posted by simplnsweet As you can read...I am ok with having him proprosed after the wedding...I am reading many comments suggesting that I don't want him to propose at all.
We have the wedding rehersal dinner the night before and the day before that our welcome bon fire. The BM was thinking of doing it one of those days. I did not expect to have so many people make me out to be such as high maintainance self centred person. Also most of the guests DO know the couple really well.
I apologize, my comment was meant to add an additional point of view. Additionally, I think I was more thrown off about all the comments that this is your wedding, it should be all about you, etc. Not ness just pointed at you as a person.
To answer you question, yes, the BM should be able to propose on your wedding trip. It is your discrestion if you want to ask him to do it after. Although my personal opinion is that is wont steal your thunder in any way, but give you soon to be husband and yourself a way to share a very special place with friends.
I think to a certain degree your wedding day is about the bride, but for the most part these are peoples vacations that they paid for, that is part of having a DW.