yeah, when my sister had her wedding I did everything for her, now it's my turn so why can't she just back off and let me enjoy the experience! She tells me that I don't understand that not all the guests will be able to come, which is totally not the case! I understand!!! See her issue is it is not a vacation she would take, she likes cruises and has never even been to an AI, for my FI and I we have only been to AI and not cruises and my FI gets sea sick, why would we choose a cruise for our wedding when he would be sick the whole time!!! We met in Mexico and we want to get married there, she just needs to get over it and obviously I need to let it go that I can't make her happy. It just sucks that it's my sister making the fuss....