Tara5258,
I totally agree with what you are saying. I have told everyone what the plan is and told them we would love for you to come but if you cant we understand that way there is no pressure on anyone and really all I care about is getting married on the beach with my husband to be. I think right now there are 4 couples coming. My daughter and her husband, son and his girlfriend and my future in-laws, and my moh and her husband. And if for some reason they all cancel thats fine with me!