I haven't been on the forum long or overly active on it but am now married! I didn't have an overly fancy wedding or tons of detail put in to it but I so miss the whole process. I wouldn't change a thing about it but sometimes wish I could do it over again knowing what I know now I do have tons of post wedding things to clear up like photobooks, thank yous and finally reorganizing my spare bedroom that was used for weddging stuff. But I am still finding it really hard to get my mind back on track. I thought, ok after the wedding I'll be able to focus because I won't have the wedding to think about, but now it is hard coming back to reality. I am glad I found this thread