I am so glad to hear other peoples thoughts on this. It is something we have talked about and are thinking about, but I am VERY unsure. I am a "rather" emotional person and I know I will cry at our wedding. I don't want to be a silly crying girl twice and then we also have the "two-date" dilema. I guess you guys are right, I just need to call can tell them what we are doing and see what the BARE minimum is that we can do so that the DW feels like the real thing. If anyone knows the rules in Illinois will you please pm me?