OOHHHHH!!! Sorry, lol, I guess my caffeine hadn't kicked in yet as I completely overlooked that!
I agree, that is pretty rude but try not to get too worked up about it. I mean of course vent to us, that's why we're here but don't let it interfere with the happiness of your own wedding.
I've come to the conclusion during my whole DW experience thus far that people will just do what THEY want! We can't control it and they will always have something to complain about...no matter how generous you're being. Try to keep your chin up!