Cait, it took me about 6 months to decide where to get married lol! Keep in mind that I am a reasearch queen, so don't panic! I basically made a list of what the most important features in a resort were to me and rated them. For example: food, beach, entertainment, adults only or family friendly, etc. That allowed me to cross a lot off options off my list. From there I contacted each hotel and got wedding package prices. Then I spoke to a TA to get details from a "professionals" view point.
Cait, also keep in mind that I've NEVER traveled anywhere!! So to me this was a really big and overwhelming task, but I don't think it needs to be that way for everyone! Also keep in mind that no matter how much you are putting your guests needs first.....there will always be someone that will complain and make you want to pull your hair out. Just smile and keep going about your plans lol.
Good luck!