Awwww Jennie, I feel so bad that you're going through this right now. I think it's perfectly normal to feel "overwhelmed" at this point in your planning process. I'm quoting overwhelmed because that's probably why these things are suddenly bothering you. Its an emotional time! Having said that, I'm assuming that these things are "suddenly" bothering you and that they haven't really been an issue in the past. I would say that's normal, but they do seem to be big issues. I don't know, I guess you're the only one that can really know the answer. Have you guys been together a long time or are you feeling like this is rushed? Can you picture yourself with him for the rest of your life and feel confident that he will always be loyal to you? I'd say that if you're confident in your relationship then this is likely just cold feet - totally normal!!! I hope things improve for you and we're always here for you to get whatever you're worrying about off your chest! Sometimes that alone makes a huge difference!