Thanks again for all of your opinions
I took the first step today and started putting in low lights so I'm going to work my way back to dark brown with highlights. As much as I love the blonde as many of you have said I don't want to look back at my wedding pictures and think that I don't look like myself. Plus I do like myself with dark hair also AND FH finally admitted to me that he likes me better with dark hair. He kept telling me that he likes me with either hair colour but he was just waiting to give his true opinion when I picked what he liked. Men, lol!