I hear ya! The news media up here makes my parents paranoid. Over the last few years, people from Alberta, or Canada in general have been involved in some unfortunate events that happened in Mexico....for example the "decapitating" murders of that Toronto family, or an Alberta man who fell off his balcony at the resort he was staying at and later died in hospital.
I just tell my mom that the Toronto family was suspected to have gang-ties (anyone know anything about this btw? Haven't ever heard if they ever solved it beyond those two vacationing women they suspected...). Incidentally enough, we were staying at the Grand Palladium in the Riviera Maya the same week that those murders occurred at the Barcelo. I hope I'm not scaring any Barcelo brides, I wouldn't worry about it. I had put down the Barcelo as one of my resort considerations but heard back from the Iberostar first.
As for the gentleman who fell off his balcony...I'm not sure what the story there was, I just figured maybe he had one too many drinks? No offence to anyone by that....