We were going to have a 200+ wedding at home, but it was going to be a lot of $ and we both started to get overwhelmed, especially with the way the economy is. That is why we decided to cancel everything and do a DW our guest list is going to be about 60 people (our familys are big) and trying to be as economical as possible.
After reading this thread though, I am definitely going to cut back on some expenses that I dont need. IE the tanning membership I have every month that I never use.