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YoursTruly

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  1. oh most definitely--that is a tough place to be mentally. remain optimistic that you will survive. sending up the prayers for you and your family. Hugs
  2. like the other girls stated, what is the issue with him accompanying you guys to the wedding? you hinted at other family financial issues or maybe the resort is not kids friendly? Last minute we had to leave our son at home (he is 2) because due to his illness he could not fly out given the condition he was in. So we had to cancel all plans for him literally a week before. We were saddened, however, we did check in multiple times a day and celebrated before we left. Hope this helps..
  3. an option that worked well for us was to buy a Digicell phone--you pay for the phone and the cell plan and we were able to make as many calls as we liked. Our son was left home in the states last minute due to illness so this option worked very well as we were able to call as many times as we wished to.
  4. have you tried researching your question on a legal website or a family lawyer. Or maybe you can try calling the county clerk and maybe someone in the registry department can answer the questions based on experience. Good luck
  5. I have not tried it but it sound slike a really nice idea and the pics I have seen to support this are always lovely. Have you talked this over with your WC to see if your vision would work based on the wedding facility? I think it would be good if you cleared this up first and go from there.
  6. Oh my---sounds almost surreal-but we absolutely wish you the best. There is still time, apply a little pressure and remain calm! You will have the two most important people in your life supporting you and that matters most. I know everything will be fine and you can start a thread titled, "Remember When?" I wish you well and cant wait for the photos!
  7. I agree with TD. Her feelings may have been slightly hurt even though they are truths to you. But stick to your requests and tell her they are not demands just the way you feel
  8. congrats! u will LOVE RMB should you decide on that hotel!!
  9. I think its very important that you guys have a meeting of the mond of wht you two actually want and prioritize the reasons for having them. If your dad is helping are you guys contributing at all? Your budget sounds smaller so I like the other girls recommended would look at hotels where the food is included and go from there.....Your opinion counts too and you should definitely have a say so. Best of luck.
  10. okay it looks like typical RIU design..very nice
  11. oh wow---well at least all is not lost and people are going to book. it will work out once you clarify the rsvp date. its not like people pay attention to RSVPs anyway..
  12. i have no advice---just thought your story is hilarious...
  13. There are plenty of threads on this and in a nutshell, you have to clear all the noise from your mom, family and others. Decide what works best for you and FI in addition to your budget. I have learned that you cannot please everyone and when you are done making it work to fit everyone else's schedule they disappoint you. So, decide what you want and stick to that agenda and be fine with it!
  14. I am not sure why it matters when folks are on vacation as everyone else has said. Carry on with your plans (lol).
  15. I think he is being spiteful and does not want to see you doing "you" when he feels you should be miserable. I think you will be okay, you have London's passport and as they rarely ask for the documentation --think you should be okay. Hopefully he will come around and if he does, move quickly on taking the letter!
  16. how about going Off on another tangent and naming the weight watchers mini lemon and chocolate icing 100 cakes Dee-lish! But you have to stop at 2 or the whole idea of eating low in fat goes out the door!
  17. Samsonite, American Tourist in that order. Less $ than Tumi and I swear lasts forever!
  18. Sometimes things are a culmination of build-up of things that have gone unsaid. Speak up and let himknow how you feel. You definitely do not want to be fighting right before you get on the plane. Everything will work out. Keep us posted. Hugs….
  19. I would recommend either carrying it in yor hand OR after the ceremony, let it settle and then pour more sand to really top it off before packing it with a stopper. Ours ot messed up due to the settling and movement while in transit back to the States.
  20. I have wording that I used for my sand ceremony. Please PM with your personal email addy and I will send it to you.
  21. Of course your wedding package would not be included. AI means food, drink, some activities. Of course your tips are not included.
  22. We had the intentions..but Im a lightweight with alcohol and one drink later I had to leave the party and go to sleep. Fi came in around 5 am and it was a wrap after that..We were both too tired.....
  23. no it is not strange..some people do this in order to create a sense of anticipation and newness entering into the marriage. If this works for you (some men wouldabsolutely not go for it), then by all means do it!
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