i def want something for my day cause i know i'm going to be a mess. i'm going to try it out before hand just to see how i feel on it though. i agree don't want to be the drugged up one at your own wedding. i was at starbucks looking through a stack of wedding books and mags and kept breathing heavey to the point my chest hurt and i had to leave. all this planning is overwhelming , but you will make it through. when its too hot in the kitchen get out! step away for a breather when you can!!!!!
i feel bad changing my name , almost like a insult to my dad. i know its crazy but thats how i feel and i love my name also, so up in the air with this!