Thanks girls for being so supportive. No one from my FI's family will be there. His mom was afraid to fly in the first place so this gave her a convenient way to back out.
Part of me still wants to go and I'm like the hell with everyone else but I just don't know. So we have looked at a Plan B to do something small here but I'm like why compromise and do something here for all these people who aren't being supportive in the first place?
And then I have a great photographer that we paid to go with us and it's like if it's just us we still get beautiful pictures but when we look back in a few years there will be no bridesmaids, no dancing, no memories of the people who were there b/c no one will be there!
So what is a girl to do? I am soo upset, sad, frustrated, angry, mad as hell! I hate the swine flu and the media for blowing it all up!