haha my family is nuts Karen - they think that I'm leaving them forever since I'm getting married and they want to take one last family trip just the 4 of us, mom, dad, sis, and me. We decided, might as well make it a site visit and a family trip in one - so we found a cruise that leaves from LA - close to us so we don't need to fly - and goes to Cabo, Puerto Vallarta, and Mazatlan - should be fun as long as the weather isn't too crappy