Bing & Win Win

QUOTE=ashrose;449002]There, see... now I made you feel better!! When I was in high school I went on a mission trip to Ensenada, Mexico and the staff guys there would make these giant sandwhiches... One side would have peanut butter and jelly... the other ham/cheese/mayo... then they would SMOOSH the two together. I tried a bite of it once... there was WAY WAY too much going on in that one. Tell your DH that you aren't weird at all... Ew! It's one or the other...what were they thinking!

Friday, August 7th @ 2:19pm. Sitting here picking my bum waiting for 4:30 so I can go the heck home and enjoy my weekend!!

Quote: Originally Posted by purrfected Ok, I confess that their are members of FI's family that I do not want at our wedding. It is not that I don't like them, it is just......they are so country. Hmmm, how can I explain this without sounding like a snob from LA? Just imagine having the Clampetts at your wedding! I guess there isn't a way to say it without sounding like a snob, I even feel guilty about writing it, nevertheless it is true!!!! who wouldn't want the Clampetts at their wedding?

Quote: Originally Posted by Debs I'm sorry but I would have to be more blunt then subtle, because you've pretty much put her in the situation you were, haven't you? Just think about how you've been feeling these last couple of months. I just couldn't do that to someone else, knowing how I felt when it was happening to me. Just my thoughts. Ouch Everyone has a different opinion. You're entitled to one...even if it's blunt I'm not normally a mean person that would intentionally make someone feel bad. I've said that at this point in my life I want to be surrounded by people that care about me as much as I care about them. I don't think I'm a bad person because of that. If someone is your friend you shouldn't have to tell them it was wrong and hurtful to not be included in any of their wedding functions. I know when it comes to my showers and stagette parties...and all of the planning stuff - I will ensure that everyone of my friends are included. I'm not about making any of my friends feel leftout...that's a really awful thing to do to someone. And, you may say that that's exactly what I'm doing to her...but, at this point I no longer consider her a friend of mine. I do not hate her or wish anything bad on her...I simply do not consider her a true friend or a kind person. I don't think I'm in the wrong for pulling away after what she did. I don't have many girlfriends - the good ones are hard to come by. But, I can say the ones I have are great and I love them to bits.

Hi Everyone, I know there are a few different threads for this resort but I'm actually looking for specific information on the Club Golden (or Royal Golden) section of the resort. I've seen it called both. This is where we booked and I was just wondering if anyone could tell me what it's like. Is it close to the beach? We were told that it's the section closest to the beach. It's supposed to be the best section in the resort (aside from the new Ambar section) and it is supposed to come with sections and restaurants exclusive the Club Golden guests...it's also supposed to come with all sorts of amenities. Just curious if people who stayed in this section were happy with the selection and does it stand up to the reputation of being the "higher end" section of this resort? Thanks in advance, Megan

I don't think I saw condoms on this list.... Better safe than sorry??!!

Please don't shoot yourself ;0) I think I'm going to try it also!

Sure KittenHeart....I'd love to see your letter! Thanks!

Quote: Originally Posted by KittenHeart I'm SO relieved that I'm not the only one stressing about this... granted I've got more time than most of you but I've been staying on top of people with friendly reminders and keeping in touch with my TA. I did get a group contract for 10 rooms, swim up suites because around Swine Flu time it was only a few dollars more than the standard room and the swim up suites are fantastic! I'm using my sales tactics to push good pricing or grabbing the last few of the special rooms and it's working pretty well. People responding thanking me because they forgot so if you word things well or personally nudge it works. I tell people that they'll thank me for it in Mexico So, if I email you my guest list...could you use your sales tactics to get my guests to book? ;0)

I should mention - the whole point on us cutting down the lovin' and using the "no glove, no love" rule...is because we really don't want to end up pregnant before the wedding! Phew...I was starting to think there was something wrong with me. I'm glad I'm not alone!

Quote: Originally Posted by Dedicated2Us Just read your last message. You know people make mistakes, and some don't realize what they are doing. You have to specifically tell them what it is that they are doing that is hurting you. I think you should really think about this before you make a rash decision that you will regret later. Maybe not decide something like this when u are upset. Speak with her first (open and honest) and then decide =) cheer up....there are plenty female fish in the sea lol Plenty of female fish in the sea...you're funny!!! I totally get what you're saying. However, I think I'm at a point in my life where I want friends that truly care about me as much as I care about them. I feel like she knows exactly how she made me feel and I really do think she knows that she should have made sure ALL of her friends got invited to her shower and bachelorette party. She's nearly 30...it should just be common sense by now!? The fact that she didn't speak up and say "hey - make sure you invite these people", is really quite offensive. I don't have time for people like that in my life. Life is far to short. I want to surround myself with good, honest and caring people. I'm not mad any more, hurt - a little. But, I'm not going to waste anymore time being upset. It is what it is. Thanks for your input, and like I said - I get what you're saying...I just can't be bothered to invest anymore effort into this friendship!

Quote: Originally Posted by Love3 what was that? You and your FI are breaking up?? If so I am sorry to hear that Heck NO...he'll never get away from me I was speaking about my bad friend. I'm breaking up with her. I haven't officially told her this yet. I'm hoping she'll just wake up and catch on! You'd have to read my first post to see why.

I'm going through the same thing. I actually just sent out a mass email...and in it I stated "Please rsvp with your plans as soon as possible. We have realized how hard it is to plan a wedding when we don't know numbers". I followed it up by saying how we look forward to going on a great vacation with so many great friends and family. Just so it didn't sound TOO cranky! We did get a few responses from it...but, we're still waiting on most everyone. People either don't get it or just don't care. Some people have called our parents to rsvp...instead of us?? Does anyone else find this weird. I have never in my life responded to a bride and grooms parent's regarding our rsvp!

My FI is the BB buff...I just started watching it. Natalie - I can't stand that little yappy terd ....she's so pathetic the way she follows Jesse around! She totally has the hots for him...but, he only has the hots for himself. I'd love to see Jesse gone just to see who she'd cling to next. Probably Chima. Jesse - ew! Ronnie - creepy little moron Jeff - HOT! That's it...just HOT!!! Would be happy to see him win. Jordan - bubble head! Chima - Drag queen? Russell - Mongoose....hilarious! Lydia - fell off the crazy wagon... Michelle - love her! I hope she floats her way to the end of the game to win it....

Okay - my FI and I are trying to be really careful in the sex department b/c I'm not on the pill and we never use condoms. So, we said we are going to cut down on the fun and use condoms. My confession...I really could care less lately about sex. What's wrong with me...I used to want it ALL THE TIME. Now I never feel frisky - what's up with that? Sometimes I pretend I'm into it...but really, I would rather be sleeping. LOL. Is this normal? Too much information?? Sorry!