BachataBride

to the forum! You'll LOVE it here!!

to the forum! You'll LOVE it here!!

Hello Cambridge!! We're moving to Kitchener in 16 days!! (in Brampton right now!) Welcome to the forum...you'll find so much information here it will make your head spin...and you'll love it!!! Happy Planning!!!

Sorry...I can't help you out with that. But if there is anything else I can do let me know!! Welcome to the forum & Happy Planning!!!

Oooohhhh...how suspenseful!!! And exciting!!! My fingers are crossed for you!! And you're right if it's meant to be they will take your offer!! Keep us posted!!

Absolutely beautiful!! It looks like you had soooo much fun!!

Oh yay!! How did I miss them I wonder!!!??

oooohhh...what a great site Amy!!! Thanks for sharing!!

Thanks Tanya!! You can photoshop me into some of your pictures!!

I want to go to ROR!!! You girls are going to have so much fun!! I don't know anyone going to my resort the same time as me!

WOW...if your pics are anything like your siggy pic then they are breathtaking!! Absolutely beautiful!! Welcome back (although I'm sure you wish you were still there!!)

Quote: Originally Posted by mummergirl funny how our "real" friends don't do crap, but the girls here on BDW who we don't even know go nuts for us with the well-wishes, posts on our wedding days, desire to hear all about it and see pics, compliments, support, etc.! You said it right girl!! I guess it's because we all know what each other is going through! Some people outside the "wedding world" don't really know what it's like I guess! Is it terrible that I come here to share with you girls first...before even my MOH?? (not my mom though! she is always #1!!)

I know!!! That would have been awesome!! Too bad I didn't find this forum before I booked my trip! I would have definitely considered it!! Although, I must say I definitely love the clifftop gazebo!! That is pretty hard to beat in my books!

How amazing!!! They obviously think the world of you there!! What a great surprise!!

Happy Planning!!

Happy Planning!!

Quote: Originally Posted by DanielleNDerek Can you cancel the $10,000 minimum and do something smaller or hold off a few months to see how many people book? This was my thought exactly! Cancel your current wedding plans and do something small & intimate! With all the hard times you and your FI have been having I think you need this wedding to brighten your life - you need something positive to happen right now & what better thing than getting married to the love of your life! Good Luck with everything & I wish you all the best! xoxo

Quote: Originally Posted by MonoAmor Thats crazy. I live in Northern Canada and we havent even had a snowflake yet!! Good luck with the snow! One day last week they did have flurries with reduced visability going up the 400 though! I'm not sure how far up...probably only around Barrie since it was a TO radio station that I was listening to! Yuck...I can't believe it's only just around the corner!

Quote: Originally Posted by mummergirl bottom line is they'll all really be the ones missing out. the best revenge is to have the most fantastic wedding and trip ever ... without them! ...and show them lots of fantastic, beautiful, fun pictures & don't stop talking about what a great time you had!! Really rub it in their faces!!!

I love the orange shirt!! It Rocks!! & you look fantastic...you should get drunk & sweaty more often!! (don't take that the wrong way! LOL)

Quote: Originally Posted by jcarson You guys sound like you're planning about as much as I am. I plan to just show up and select the options I like from the package and then hang out and have fun until it's time to get married. I'm lucky in that people aren't asking me details, so I can just say I'm excited and looking forward to it. I doubt we'll even send announcements as we invited everyone to come down with us. I'm of the mind set that you got an invite and if you couldn't make it, oh well. You knew it was happening. You sound like FI!! He's totally of that mindset! Me on the other hand, not so much!! I'm very detail oriented & organized (or anal as FI likes to put it!! LOL)

YAY AC/DC!!! I'm going to see those old farts on November 7th!! WOOHOO!!! PS...love the new siggy pic mummergirl!!!

Quote: Originally Posted by SunBride It hurt when, a couple days before my AHR, while watching my wedding video, she started to cry and said "I can't believe I missed your wedding". I didn't really say much in response, but I felt like it was the first time that it really really sunk in what a big deal it was that she missed it. I mean, she always thought it was a big deal, but thought she had a good reason, and it was like all of a sudden she realized she should have made an bigger effort to do whatever possible to make it. That is so sad...but is it wrong of me to think "looks good on you!!" I think it's what she deserves! Yes...it's definitely shitty that she realized this after the fact, but before making a huge desicion like missing your best friends wedding you should think about all the consequences.

Thank you for the beautiful pictures!

Oh hun..I know...that sucks! But like has been said here already - you WILL have the best time EVER!! With or without them!! FI is going through the same thing - I have a few of my friends going, but he doesn't have anyone besides family & his BM. I feel crappy for him. He's had a friend book & then cancel, people saying all along that they are going, but still haven't booked & the plane is almost full. We also have probably our closest local friends going on a honeymoon, but not to our wedding?? I know everyone has things going on...but its MY wedding!!! And it is only happening once!! You can save for your other trip that you would prefer to go on and go later. This is MY wedding & you were special enough to me to be invited so I should be special enough to you to come! Especially if you can afford it!! (Or if it wouldn't put you too far out!) Grrrrrr.... But like FI says...the people that really matter will be there...our parents, his sis & hubby & our MOH & BM (BFs)...but it still pisses me off!!! Sorry...that's my rant for the day!!