My prayers are with you. It's a long and hard road ahead of you but we women are strong and I believe you can get through this and come through the other side a stronger and wiser person. I am sending well wishes and a giant hug your way Leslie, stay strong.
Great thread. I also used Card Stock, Vellum Paper, Envelopes, Metallic Cardstock, Invitation Cards Specialty Wedding Stationery - Paperandmore.com for pocketfolds (39.99 per 50 pockets).
I got my samples and I think the quality is very good. Check out this thread. The bride used paper and more for her pocketfold and cardstocks. http://bestdestinationwedding.com/fo...ns-pics-51111/
Both are beautiful but i love the first for the back and second overall. I know, it's not helping you so if i had to choose, I'll say go for the second dress. I am glad i am not in your position :-)