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Oooo good question, I'll ask my WC if they do dress steaming, my dress is a thicker silk so I'm sure it will need some steaming. Katie!! Good job! Now that you've started, you've got past the hardest part (in my opinion) I'm starting my 3rd Insanity workout tonight and I feel better already even though I'm in a lot of pain, it's good pain. Amy - That's such a cute idea!! Can't wait to see how it looks AmyB - Super cute! So the dress already looked a little goddess like or did you change it up? Very cute idea! Lindz - Just added you!!! I wish I had done something cute to ask my bridesmaids, I asked them the dumbest ways possible... my BFF who I was her Maid of Honor, kept jokingly bugging me about who my Matron of Honor was going to be one night and I told her I planned on doing it in a cute way but since she was so impatient she might as well know! My Maid of Honor I did right, took her out to lunch on a fun day of shopping and asked her in a really cute way, she LITERALLY burst into tears on the spot which made me start tearing up and then we both realized that Meatloaf -"I would do anything for love" was playing and the both burst into laughter The rest of them, honestly, doing tequila shots at home with friends and text messaged 2 of them lots of gooey words, the last I asked in person. Whoa sorry for the story, I just love your idea!

I completed P90X and it got me in the best shape I've ever been in, EVER doing the classic version which is very little cardio. I followed it closely though and without cardio I dropped so much fat it was unbelievable. I highly recommend it! You need a pull up bar (Iron Gym is like $29) which you can hook on to a door frame. A resistance band and some weights. I didn't even use heavy weights, a set of 8lbs & a set of 10lbs. I'm now onto another Beachbody program called Insanity and it's ALL cardio, intense high impact cardio with no weights. Needless to say it's kicking my booty and I'm in pain, lots of pain but it's only 60 days with an easier meal plan than P90X.

Happy Wedding Day Nicole!!!! I hope it's the most amazing day ever for you, can't wait to hear all about it and see your pictures when you get back

Lindz - I do use the BBM, my friends love it too The cigar roller was an option (additional cost) and I don't even know how many people will smoke cigars but FI is so excited he said he doesn't care if he's the only one... anything to make him this happy is so worth it to me

Congrats!! Wow, I can't believe it's already here! Can't wait to see your pictures

Quote: Originally Posted by bahiabride2010 My FI and I have been working on this: Prior to Ceremony - Love Jazz Tunes by Michael Buble, Diana Krall, Oscar Peterson, Frank Sinatra and Ella Fitzgerald BM's down the aisle - Love Me Do by the Beatles Bride down the aisle - All you need is Love by the Beatles Entrance to Reception - Parents and Bridal Party - Not sure of the artist but the Old Hockey Night in Canada Theme and the Chicago Bulls Line-up music Entrance to Reception - Us - Tonights the Night by the Black Eyed Peas First Dance - Eternal Flame by the Bangles then Rock the Reception Mix Father/Daughter - Isn't She Lovely by Stevie Wonder That's all we've decided as for now! One idea I really love is that we're going to ask all the married couples what their first dance was and we'll make those songs part of the music through dinner! HAPPY PLANNING! Wow!! I LOVE all your song choices! I'm walking down the aisle to The Beatles as well =)

Oops! Thanks Andrea, I didn't notice that you posted it already I'm so happy you liked her!

Katie - for a TTD I found one I really like... it's kinda pricey though. I got quoted $299 =( I mean it's NOT expensive but after buying my wedding dress that was ONLY $1,000 over budget (said sarcastically) I'm trying to make it up somehow... especially since I planned on actually trashing my dress but it's too pretty to destroy and it's satin so it definitely wouldn't fare wel in the water. Where did you find yours?

Regarding the AHR - I am going to send pictures to everyone who isn't able to attend the weddiing that I invited with a note that they were in our hearts and we love them very much... something along those lines so they feel included.

Quote: Originally Posted by thefuturemrslutz I wish this sit would work on my Blackberry. I can't believe I missed all those posts in 1 day! I am in medical sales, so I LIVE in the car. I wish I had a cafe in my car! haha Tell me more about this unsweetened vanilla almond milk or whatever?? I am obsessed with milk but it has SO MUCH sugar! I know you guys are all freaking out, but to me it seems like everyone is right on track! You guys have gotten SOOOO much done!! very impressive. Also, I think the DJ, or having someone man your IPOD, is definitely worth the money. You don't want anything to worry about at the reception. You want to enjoy it!!!!! AHR: Is that bad that I am not having one? It will be 600 people and EXPENSIVE! I don't want to spend another $20,000. That was the whole reason to go to mexico. Am I being a bad bride by not having one? I'm in sales too!!! I'm in software sales though and don't travel, so I'm lucky. Do you have a BB Curve? That's what I have and it's full internet with a little mouse and everything... haven't tried it but it should work. My quote I received from DJ Mannia was $990 for 4 hours, I didn't hear about any 30% off! I also let my WC know that I was bringing an outside DJ and they said it was fine, just have to pay the fee. I've also decided on a cigar roll which FI is over the moon about I personally don't think it's bad that you aren't have an AHR... I'm not The wedding is about you, not everyone else! Besides I'm going to go all out on one day, not two! Oh and Almond Milk... BEST EVER... low in fat and sugar ahhh I love it. You can buy it at Trader Joes, Ralphs, Vons, Albertsons, Whole Foods etc. Do you have any of those out there?

Andrea - It sounds like you don't have too much left to do and have at least it narrowed down, my favorite advice, one thing at a time. I just had a mental breakdown regarding my iPod and not knowing who would man it so it's really nice to know that someone will be on hand for you. Chrissy - OMG, I can't believe your day is almost here!! I would love to use your votive holders but I'm 6 months behind you so I don't think that would work. I'm not a huge meat fan but lean protein always works for me too.

Quote: Originally Posted by Afrommert hey ladies Loven all your workout comments! It helps keep me motivated!!! So, Is it just me or is there only one dj at as? I always go back and fourth reading old and new questions and answers but cant seem to find info on a dj. I did see mention of dj mania or somthing like that, lots of girls referred him, Im wondering if thats the dj on site or somthing. I guess ill have to ask Tiffany. She quoted me $1500 for a dj, I think thats too much. And I got a choice of 2 photographers, one is expensive and one doesnt even look professional... flowers... ok so I may go with the silk ones now seeing how unreasonable they are at as, But has anyone had an outside vendor like cancun florist deliver flowers to the resort? wedding in a little over 3 months and im stressing baaaad!!!!!!!! Funny that you mention the DJ Mannia! I emailed him last night and heard back this morning. I got quoted for 4 hours of DJing with all the equipment and lighting for $990. With the $500 outside vendor fee that's still cheaper than Lomas DJ and I'm happy with all the reviews I read. They seem very professional so I am 90% sure I'll be hiring them. I have no info on outside vendors with flowers and photographers you know my vote Good luck! Just tackle one thing at a time, it's the only thing that doesn't make me freak out

Quote: Originally Posted by amybermuda Ames - yum your breakfast sounds awesome. I'll have to try that, I dont really like milk so cutting out cereal and trying oatmeal is prob the way to go. I love egg whites too, but what, do you cook them and reheat them at work? Thanks! I don't drink milk either, I have discovered unsweetened vanilla almond milk and never looked back - 45 cals for 8oz. I didn't even think of that... I have a cafe at my work and I have them cooked there but a number of my co-workers bring their own and microwave them... I know, sounds gross but they're not bad at all.

Congrats ladies!

I did the same thing on my website, I put examples of what to wear and inspiration boards of outfits for women and one for men. I keep writing "upscale/casual attire" I figured people know it will be near the ocean but we're not getting married on the sand so I left out the word beach.

Quote: Originally Posted by Sloan We used "sand between the toes elegant" ... not sure what that means, but hey no one showed up in a Speedo, so I figured people got the point. That's so cute!!

Quote: Originally Posted by aimee&ted here's mine, sookie stackhouse and my super sweet merlotte's logo i created & ironed on You did a great job! I cheated and just bought my shirt and apron online

Wow I've never heard of these new ways of getting the couple to kiss, good to know!

Congrats and welcome Vanessa!! We're happy to have you Let us know if you have any questions

That's awesome AmyBermuda! Sounds like you're doing great, keep it up. I'm a huge fan of Vodka Seltzer w/ lime now because I realized that soda water has sodium in it and seltzer doesn't. Vodka water isn't something I've ever tried though, I'll definitely check it out. I'm a big fan of flax meal, my morning breakfast is where I like to have my only grain carb (if possible). Small cup of oatmeal (or half oatmeal half cream of wheat) with a cinnamon, a sprinkle of brown sugar and flax meal with a few sliced, toasted almonds & half a banana. I love it, I never get sick of it. I agree too that breakfast is most important, absolutely, I normally split my breakfast up in two when I'm working out really hardcore (also, I'm up @ 5:30am every morning because I start worK @ 6:30am) so the oatmeal earlier and then 3 egg whites with diced tomatoes, bell peppers and mushrooms a little later to get me tied over until lunch. Eating every 2-3 hours always skyrockets my metabolism.

ok that dress is beauiful on you!! If I didn't know, I'd never know it was a cheap China made dress! All that matters is that you can't tell in photos for the TTD, so I think you totally scored!

Lindz you're right, the first thing to tone up, like crazy easy is my arms and the front, FRONT only of my stomach tones up but the sides are dumb, like muffin top sides and flat front, how dumb does that look? SUPER DUMB is the answer... hahaa. Just pick a day Lindz and keep the TV off and just get it done, that's the only way to do it is power through it. You think you are freaking out about 9 months? This weekend it's exactly 6 months for Katie and I!! Then next week, we'll be LESS than 6 months, I swear thinking about this last night has got my heart RACING! What I'm freaking about is music... I planned on downloading music and bringing my iPod but then I thought about it and I really think that I would have to assign someone to it... so I'm now looking into a DJ, the thought relaxes me already. Also what's stumping me is my tablecard holders, my idea is risky and difficult and the guestbook too... kinda wanted to do the whiteboard idea but a chalkboard instead... weird? Oh and I need my TTD. Sorry... freaking out a little. Katie - LOL I agree, I'm happier with it here anyways

Hmm just read the other thread... maybe we can keep it in here Katie? If everyone else doesn't mind of course since we're kinda hijacking this thread for multiple uses I finally forced myself last night to get back to wedding planning, I've been avoiding it since my vacation and the nervousness set back in.... I have so many questions I need answered! How are all you ladies doing?

Lindz you are freakin adorable! Can I come live with you? Mmm everything sounds so good! I swear we are totally diet twins, although you're in much better shape than I am, I saw some of your pix on FB and you have got KILLER legs. It seems that no matter what I do my legs don't tone up too much, then they got a little bulky at the end of P90X but my goal is to get the nice and toned. Katie thanks for starting the other thread, I'm going over to read it now!

I'm planning on having it done but I don't have much info for you, except that it sounds like a really good idea