ohhh i dont know how you are going to choose, but the only one ive been to is maui and that was for my sisters wedding... it was so intimate there were about 20 of us and we stayed at a condo resort but were able to do a luau together but had days to go island hopping or other activities as we wished together as a group or seperate... whatever decision you make on your destination, you will love it and make sure you enjoy every minute of your day.