We have a guest that is going on our trip that is EXACTLY the same. She wants to know what time we are eating breakfast, thinks we should decide what resturants we want to do each night before we go etc... Everytime she brings these things up we just tell her that everyone can plan their own vacation and if they are doing somethings she wants to do she can join them, or she can make plans and people will go with her if they want. I think she is just really excited to go!