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If you like peace and quiet, Treasure Beach is perfect for you! My husband and I spent the last 2 nights of our honeymoon in Treasure Beach so that we could tour YS Falls and the Appleton Rum Factory, and we absolutely loved it. It's very very different from Negril - there aren't many people, almost no hustlers, you feel safe, less restaurants but good quality, and a better feel for true Jamaica. We got a ride from Negril to Treasure Beach for about $120 for the both of us. We stayed at a place called Taino Cove (Taino Cove - Discover the Hidden Treasure!) and it was lovely. We had the entire place to ourselves, which meant we got to control the radio in the hut by the pool and we took advantage of the seclusion by having a couple of romantic walks on the 'private' beach. The owner, Winnie, was ready to take care of any need we could think of, and the free breakfast was healthy and tasty! We walked down to Jack Spratts for dinner one night and encountered the only hustler we saw the entire time we were in Treasure Beach. The next night we dined at a place called Olivers (I think) that was in a tiny strip mall not too far from the hotel. Olivers was some of the best food I've ever had. The view of the mountains from Treasure Beach was gorgeous, and the ride over from Negril was a blast - especially seeing the alligators on the banks of the Black River, the beautiful views of the mountains dropping into the ocean (think James Bond) and the roadside huts that sell fresh escovitched fish and bammy. I highly recommend a trip to Treasure Beach!

While I didn't use any outside planners for my wedding (why take away all the fun?), I do know that Ari is active on the negril.com forum - I've read several posts by her and she seems to know her stuff. Negril.com Message Board >> Wedding Article Negril.com Message Board >> Negril Message Board Off topic, but she's also got some good insight on Americans living in Jamaica.

DJ: I'm not really sure how well I can review this, since we brought our music on an iPod and CDs - we just needed his equipment and for him to introduce us. There was one point where he deviated from the playlist and started doing Elvis re-mixes, but I only needed to give my husband a look and he went to tell the DJ to stick to the list. I must add that the pre-ceremony and cocktail hour music that was provided by the DJ wasn't bad, and they extended the party about an hour past the normal quitting time (no charge) because we were having such a good time, which was very sweet. TTD Photos: see TTD post: http://bestdestinationwedding.com/fo...jamaica-45369/ Other: OOT bags I really can't fault Negril Escape for anything here. I mentioned the OOT bags to Don a couple of weeks before the wedding and then again when we arrived. I took all of the bags up to the front desk with instructions for distribution, but our guests weren't getting the bags - I had to keep running up and grabbing them and taking them to the guests myself. We had built a charge into the budget for the delivery of the bags, but they waived the charge without us having to say anything. I think the OOT bags are probably still a bit new to them, but they are planning to start a whole wedding division and I'm sure they will become familiar with all the wedding ideas we destination brides have pretty soon. Summary: Overall, we were extremely pleased with everything. Our guests were thrilled with our hotel selection - the rooms and buildings were full of character and the location on the West End/cliffs was a perfect choice for our adventurous group. Our group would rather go to a place like Alice's or 3 Dives over places like Margaritaville. I know some brides might be concerned that it might be a bit 'rustic' for their taste - don't be. Negril Escape provided a customized package to our taste, a stellar location, a devoted staff, and the true vibe of Jamaica. To see more (and some of the same) of our wedding pictures, check out the slideshow that Stacey Clarke put together for us: Ben & Rachel And if you are a bride who is considering Negril Escape for their wedding and want to see some of our guest photos of the grounds - not just the wedding - you can check out the photobucket site we set up for guest photos. Just shoot me an email to get the username and password. And finally, (whew, this is long!) if you have any questions about my wedding at Negril Escape, send me an email at [email protected]. Many thanks to all the ladies on this board who provided tons of inspiration and guidance throughout the wedding planning process. You rock!

Photography: We had Stacey Clarke as our photographer. She was incredibly friendly - when she arrived in my room, I stuck out my hand for a handshake, but she gave me a big hug instead. Cute! One of our good friends (and groomsman) is also a professional photographer, and he was impressed with her technique. She took awesome pics, did a great job corralling our family together for all the required group shots, made excellent use of the setting sun, and took some of the best reception pics I have ever seen. We got the CDs (2 copies) in the mail about 2 months after the wedding. Really, her work speaks for itself. Videography: Honestly, I was less than impressed with the videography. We weren't able to hear anything that was being said during the ceremony because the only thing the video picked up was wind, when we finally recognized our recessional music, we could hear cell phones ringing in the background (either the videographers phone or whoever was doing the post-editing) and our first dance was cut short. The dance part was the most disappointing, since we had choregraphed our first dance with a special ending. Instead of catching the whole dance, it faded into waves before our grand finale. I would say that $400 would be better spent elsewhere. Florist: We used the florist that was recommended by Negril Escape, Floral Fantasies. They rock! Our flowers were gorgeous, from the bouquets and bouts to the centerpieces. I didn't specify the types of flowers I wanted, I just left it up to their judgement and gave them my wedding colors. Beautiful! The centerpieces blew away my expectations. The only recommendation I would make here is to bring ribbon (or other supplies) to wrap the stems yourself. The ribbon they used seemed kinda cheap. The gorgeousness speaks for itself:

Reception: The reception was also awesome! (I really feel like I'm getting full use of the word awesome) I had brought down the chair sashes, table runners, paper lanterns, table numbers and menus, starfish placecards, blumeboxes, and supplies for the guestbook table and the memorial table. Natasha and I discussed the setup for everything when we met on Thursday, and everything was set up the way we had discussed. It's tough to describe, so you'll have to wait for my pictures post, but it all looked pretty magical. While we took picutres, the guests filled out their guestbook page and helped themselves to the drinks and appetizers. When we were done with pictures, they gathered everyone together so they could announce us as husband and wife. We danced in to Weezer's 'Island in the Sun,' spent a few uncomfortable moments being photographed and stared at while we danced around like dorks (dance, monkey, dance!) and finally sat down at the sweetheart table. Although we had a buffet set up, there was a server assigned to us personally who took our orders and delivered our food to our table. Now, I love me some shellfish, and was all about the lobster. The only problem was that I didn't think both me and the lobster could fit in my wedding dress. I sampled everything on my plate, though, and it was all excellent. They also gave us champagne, even though we had eliminated it from the budget - free champagne, sweet! Moving on to the cake. I really didn't have any big plans for the cake - I knew I wouldn't be eating much, and I was already obsessed with so many other details that this got pushed to the backburner. I put it completely in Natasha's hands on Thursday and was happy with the cake we had on Saturday. We had a mix of chocolate and vanilla for the 3-tier, white icing cake. There were pink and orange ribbons on the base of the layers and pink and orange lilies decorated the top. I honestly don't remember how it tasted - we did the cutting and were whisked off to our first dance. Stacey, the photographer, did have us do something a little different - she said it was the 'Jamaican-style cake cutting' that involved eating cake out of each others' mouth. It's really not as gross as it sounds, more like baby birds or something. Check out the pictures to see what I mean.

Wedding Location/Setup: It was absolutely gorgeous. The Negril Escape staff started early, collecting flowers from the aisle from around the resort. Yes, you heard (read) me right. The vibrant blooms that paved my path came fresh from the resort on the wedding day. They also used flowers from around the resort to decorate the arch. Words can't describe how happy I was to see them. They also started setting up the potted plants pretty early. Like I said earlier, it did rain before the ceremony, but they had everything set up perfectly in time. The pink and orange chair sashes popped against the blue of the ocean, and my straw fans and programs all made it to the chairs, tucked behind the sash so they wouldn't blow away. I had totally forgotten about decor for the certificate-signing-table, but Natasha had made sure there were pretty chair sashes on the chairs for a little pop of color. Ceremony/Reverend: This was a part that I was kinda worried about, but had no reason to be. In one of our earlier communications with Donald, we asked him about customizing our ceremony and specifically, writing our own vows. His response was kinda vague, pretty much 'it's your big day and you can do what you want.' I interpreted this to mean that we could write the whole ceremony - which I did. We sent the 5-6 page draft to Donald, who told us it might be a little heavy for the reverend. We revised it and cut out the handfasting piece and sent it back. We didn't hear anything else from them about it, and I just assumed it was approved by Donald and the reverend. On the wedding day, Ben was standing up at the altar with the reverend waiting for my grand entrance, and noticed that the reverend was using the pre-edited version - and quickly told him to disregard the handfasting piece. The reverend removed it and all was perfect. I had thought he might struggle with some of the more obscure references in the ceremony, but he rolled right on and I was totally impressed. And very happy.

Resort: Negril Escape Resort and Spa # Guests: 33 adults (plus the two of us) Image Credits: Stacey Clarke Photography; Joshua Albanese Photography; guest photos Travel Agent: Debbie Chapman (All About Honeymoons) I gotta break this down into two parts 1)Debbie Chapman herself and 2) Divine Tours in Jamaica. Debbie was awesome - super friendly, very organized, on top of the communications, pretty much everything you'd want in a travel agent. In fact, when Divine Tours put an extra charge on my sister's card that bumped her into overdraft, Debbie cut her a personal check until things could get figured out - she's that awesome. Divine Tours, on the other hand, were a pain in the butt!!! They took forever to charge people's cards for the rooms - we were a week away from departure and the cards hadn't been charged - and they are still trying to tack on additional charges for things like the transfers (that I paid for before the wedding). I don't think Negril Escape was very happy with them either. The other thing Divine Tours did was visit us (almost every day) to try and sell tours and packages - which was extremely annoying. Our group did do a zipline tour, but arranged it through Natasha at Negril Escape. Airline: Not bad. My stepfather (who departed with us) is a head-honcho with TSA so we had a group of TSA agents carry our luggage through the airport and we were escorted through the VIP security line pretty fast. The awesome part was when people in other lines tried to jump in ours because it was superfast, only to be denied because they weren't VIPs (or relatives of TSA folks.). Sweet. I didn't expect to be bumped to first class or to be able to store my dress in the attendant's closet, which is a good thing because neither happened! My dress fit just fine in the overhead compartment on top of the bags. What was funny is that there were 3 other brides on my flight - Jamaica is a popular wedding destination! The trip home was another story. We had purchased a bunch of rum from the Appleton Estate to bring home with us. We packed it up nice and tight in our luggage and were surprised when we saw several people on the plane from Jamaica to Detroit with rum in their carry-on and overhead. When we got to Detroit, we took our rum out of our suitcases to carry on the plane like we saw so many others do, then re-checked our bags. Big mistake. Apparently, liquids are allowed on-board from Jamaica to the States, but not on flights within the States. So we had to throw our rum away in the Detroit airport (and we weren't the only ones). This made for a very crankypants husband. Lesson learned - keep all rum packaged in bubble wrap and in your checked luggage until you get home. Shuttle: All I'm going to say here is that if you want to sample some of the stuff Jamaica is known for, wait until you get to your resort and ask a groundskeeper. Some of our guests got hosed by the shuttle driver. Otherwise, all was good - the ride was much more smooth and calm than I expected. Resort: I know this is a biggie for some of you readers - this is one of the very few reviews on Negril Escape. If you've booked, I can promise you won't regret it! Negril Escape was FANTASTIC!!! I knew from the very beginning that I didn't want to be in an AI and that I didn't want to be on the beach. After reading the forums at Negril.com - Negril Jamaica I knew that I wanted my wedding to take place on the cliffs. Negril Escape was the perfect place for my group of 35 - they even started us off right with a (strong) rum punch at arrival. The rooms were all very cool and unique, they had fantastic porches (we had a hammock, a few chairs and tables, and a lounge couch right outside our door), beautiful gardens, air conditioning, and perfect views of the ocean. Even the garden-view rooms could see the ocean. We had a problem with hot water the first night there, but that was before Grandma Judy arrived. Once she got there, everyone had hot water (staggered showers are recommended). You just don't mess with Grandma Judy. I could wax poetic for hours about how beautiful the resort was, but I have more stuff to review. The staff at Negril Escape were the nicest people I met in Jamaica, hands down. We stayed at 3 resorts while in Jamaica, and while we definitely weren't treated rudely, the people at Negril Escape made us feel like family. From the housekeepers (the beautiful Marva!) to the groundskeepers (who retrieved coconuts for us), everyone was uber-friendly. They would take time to answer our questions and to tell us about their families, children, and how life runs on the island - this was an experience that money can't buy. And the food!!! Oh, the food. Spectacular. It is definitely true that food comes on 'Jamaican time', but it's worth the wait. Negril Escape made the best snapper that has ever passed my lips, their soup was wonderful, and the breakfast buffet was pretty good. The Jamaican bread is sooo good - nice and thick. And Negril Escape has a kitty that will come around and mooch pieces of bacon from your plate. He was cute. Also, there is a shuttle that runs from N.E. to the beach during the afternoon. We took it a few days, and it just confirmed our decision to stay on the cliffs - the beach can be crowded with nude sunbathers and peddlers of all things, so it was nice to be able to 'Escape' to our resort on the cliffs after all that activity. Plus, they were doing some burning in the Great Morass while we were there, so the beach area was very smoky. The other thing I wanted to address regarding the resort was security. I had read ahead of time that the sacrifice for staying in a cool, funky cliff property was that they are sometimes lacking in security. This was not the case at Negril Escape - in fact, we left stuff on our porch and had a couple guests forget cameras and sunglasses at the wedding. Everything was returned, and nobody ever disturbed our stuff on the balconies. We also used the safe that was in the closet for our most valuable possessions and everything was fine. There was a Jamaican guy, Joshua, who lived in one of the rooms at the resort. He would go around selling baskets, jewelry, sarongs, and other souvenirs. At first, I was a little sketched out and would close the doors so he couldn't see our belongings when he was chilling on our balcony, but after a few days of hanging out with him, we determined that he was harmless and relaxed a little. He was actually very nice and gave me some cocount earrings and both of us a woven basket as wedding gifts. And if there was a souvenir that he didn't have, he could go find it and deliver it to your room. Super nice guy. He also had offered to set up a bonfire and play guitar if we wanted in the evenings. I really wish we'd have taken him up on that offer. Wedding Coordinator: This is where I felt especially lucky. Donald and Natasha Wallace are a superstar team. From the initial contact to the follow through on the plans, they made my Jamaican island-wedding-fantasy come to life. Most of my pre-wedding contact was with Donald. He was very prompt in answering my (many) emails and we even talked over the phone a few times. They were flexible with the wedding package, allowing me to remove some options and add in a few special requests. He sent me all the documents I could ask for, including menu options and floor plans, and he lined up good vendors for our wedding. When we got to Jamaica, Donald was sick and his wife, Natasha took over. It was seamless - she executed my ideas perfectly. I arrived on Wednesday and we had a meeting on Thursday (I think) to run over the wedding details. She wasn't at all intimidated by my binder of spreadsheets and photo displays of set-ups for the ceremony and playlists and had everything set up beautifully. She had a lot of great suggestions - like doing a side-tie for the chair sashes - that I ended up liking better than my original idea. On the wedding day, one of my bridesmaids, who is a critical, type-A kinda girl, said she was impressed when she overheard Natasha demanding the staff change the decorations because they weren't exactly how the bride wanted them. She even made me a makeshift bustle when I stepped/ripped the ribbons out of the one the seamstress from home had sewn in. She also made sure my decorations made it back to my room to be packed before we left for the honeymoon. They (and all the Negril Escape staff) made a great team!!! Rehearsal Dinner/Welcome Party: The rehearsal dinner was....interesting. We found out about 2-3 weeks before our wedding that another wedding would be taking place on Friday night (ours was on Saturday), although the other bride and groom and their guests wouldn't be staying at Negril Escape. Which meant that we were in the Captain's Ballroom for the rehearsal dinner while the other wedding was taking place on the Lifeboat Terrace. Which also meant that our plan for a steel pan band during the rehearsal dinner was no longer an option due to conflicting music/sound systems. I hoped for the best (hoping the other couple had good taste in music) and decided to view this as a chance to see Negril Escape put on a run-through. The Good: the resort pulled off a great wedding for the other couple The Bad: The bride used the same aisle-song as I used, so it lost some novelty for the guests The Ugly: The bride and groom and wedding party all decided to do a night-jump from the lighthouse late into the reception and proceeded to get stung by some of the thousands of jellyfish that amassed in the cove that evening. There is something to be said for learning others' lessons. And don't swim at night - it's fine during the day but it seems that the light from the lighthouse may attract the jellyfish or something after dark. The food at the rehearsal dinner was excellent. As for the rehearsal part - Natasha was pretty busy working with the other wedding on the Lifeboat Terrace, but she found enough time to come and talk us through the steps for the wedding day. There were a few differences, but we had all just watched a wedding take place and honestly, we've all been in or to a few weddings and know how they generally work. It's not rocket science and I had faith in our wedding party's ability to walk and hold flowers. The only thing I regret for the rehearsal dinner was having such a long bar - with the wedding downstairs and no steel pan band, there was really no reason to stay at the Dinner/Welcome Party and many of our guests left early to do their own thing. Wedding Day: I truely cannot believe how calm I was on my wedding day - I'm sure this had a lot to do with how well things were organized at Negril Escape. We were nice and relaxed in getting up and getting moving, and I'm pretty sure the groom did some swimming/jumping off the lighthouse in the AM. We had a nice bridesmaid lunch and I went back to my room to start laying out my wedding stuff. It rained for about 1.5 hours in the afternoon (the Jamaicans call this liquid blessing), but the skies cleared about an hour before the ceremony and everything was fine. More than fine, in fact, because it wasn't as humid after the rain. And from what I understand, Jamaica had been experienceing a really dry spell, so they were really happy for the rain. Plus, I hear it's good luck. While it rained, I sat on the lounge-couch outside our room and copied our vows to index cards. I think a lot of reality hit me in that hour I spent on the porch. I didn't use any of the spa services offered at Negril Escape and instead chose to do my own make-up and hair. Not that I didn't have faith in their abilities - rather, I wanted to buy a bunch of MAC make-up and this was the perfect excuse. Plus, one of my friends who came is awesome and make-up and I'm not too bad fixing my own hair. I did a few trials back home and didn't have any issues. While we were finishing getting ready, Natasha came to the room to deliver our beautiful bouquets, our photographer(s) came to snap a few goofy getting-ready shots, and the videographer walked down to catch some tape of us leaning over the balcony, checking out the setup. Then it was time to go. The order of people-going-down-the-aisle was a little different than it is in the States, in that the groomsmen also do a little journey down the aisle instead of just waiting with the groom. I think one of our groomsmen was thrilled at this prospect, because he literally strutted down the walk - we caught it on camera and it is hysterical. The ceremony was beautiful. After the ceremony, Negril Escape servers were on-hand with drinks and appetizers while we did pictures. Speaking of, the servers at Negril Escape were awesome. We did one of those guestbooks that are pretty popular on here (from the guestbook store) and one of the servers, Vevienne, filled out a page. We laughed so hard when we were going through the guestbook on the honeymoon and discovered it. She also danced with my (very drunk) father at the reception, and he developed a crush on her that lasted the rest of the vacation. This is what I mean when I say that we felt like family. We were having such a rocking time at the reception that Negril Escape extended our time by at least 1/2 hour at no charge - I like to think they were having fun too.

We thought Stacey was awesome! Here is our slideshow: Ben & Rachel

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When planning my wedding, I did a lot of research on Negril.com - Negril Jamaica and Ari is pretty active on the Negril message boards. Although we didn't use a planner ourselves, from what I've seen on the board, she seems to know her stuff.

Negril Escape Resort and Spa does a 'Wedcast' for $500.

Most places do accept the American dollar, but it's good to have some Jamaican money, just in case. We needed it when we stopped at a roadside stand on our way to Treasure Beach, on the south coast of Jamaica. Plus, it's a good idea to know the conversion rate in case you are quoted a price in Jamaican dollars. I used this website Negril.com - Negril Jamaica when planning my wedding because they gave the daily exchange rate at the Hi-Lo grocery store in Negril. It came in pretty handy, imo.

Quote: Originally Posted by alkoch I absolutely LOVE your dress, where is it from?? I've tried to find a picture online, but haven't had any luck. It's an Essence of Australia dress that I purchased at Bliss Boutique in Brownsburg, a suburb of Indianapolis. Quote: Originally Posted by KimmyG I decided Josh is pretty darn talented. Gonna contact him. Maybe he has a BDW discount?! I gave him the link of this review yesterday, and he was so excited! Talked to him on the phone last night, and I'm pretty sure he's planning to join BDW as a vendor and will most certainly be offering a discount to BDW members - just contact him!

Thank you! My husband just informed me that I spelled the link wrong and insists that I post a correction - Trash the Dress! Jamaica Style Joshua Albanese Photography

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Since I'm still working on my wedding review and just got the pro pics in (still need to sift through those), I thought I'd go ahead and post some of our TTD photos. The reason I have one set and not the other is because our TTD photographer was not the same photographer that shot our wedding. A few months ago, Ben's best friend, Josh, came to Indy from Chicago to spend the weekend with us. He is a professional photographer and weddings are included in his portfolio, so he naturally wanted to be our wedding photographer, but Ben and I had other plans for him. These boys have been best friends FOREVER - there was no way Josh couldn't be in our wedding...and we wanted him to be partying with us, not working. So when he came to stay the weekend, we talked about doing a TTD session a few days after the wedding. He was staying a few extra days and was planning to bring all his equipment anyways, so we decided to do a TTD at the Blue Cave Castle, our first honeymoon spot. BTW – the Blue Cave Castle was awesome! We had the penthouse suite with 3 floors of balconies for only $165 a night and they had a cave that looked perfect for a TTD shoot. I was so excited to have a way to work Josh's mad skills into our wedding - he is super talented and very passionate about his work. The extra benefit of being best friends with the TTD photographer is that there were no constraints on the shoot - we didn't have to squeeze everything into a few hours and we were all already comfortable with each other. Plus, Josh did a really good job of posing us and doing the photographer thing, "beautiful...that's gorgeous...just like that..." that I felt like a model. In fact, in a way I wish he would have been able to direct us for our actual wedding pictures because I looked kinda broken and awkward in the wedding photos and Josh was really good about telling me how to hold my head and I held myself much better in the TTD photos (if that makes any sense). If the pics don't show up, some are also posted on his blog http://www.josuhaalbanese.com where there are also some pictures of the wedding that were taken by our friend Brittany while Josh was doing his groomsman duties (you can also google Joshua Albanese Photography). And you can also find his contact information and general wedding photography info from this site too, if you’re interested in bringing him to shoot your wedding. Okay, enough chatter - here are the pics.

Didn't read the article (afraid I'd be too grossed out) but I started thinking a couple things while reading through the thread. 1. I wonder if pajamas make a difference? I would imagine the body secretions would be more abundant, maybe, if one slept naked instead of wearing pajamas? 2. I wonder if the same stuff would be true for the front seats of my car. I spend almost the same amount of time in my drivers seat as I do sleeping some days, and assuming the study includes sleeping with pajamas, there are body secretions all over those fabric seats and they certainly don't get washed as often as my sheets and definitely not with hot water. Gross. It's early. Maybe I should just go get some coffee and try not to think about secretions anymore.

Here are mine: 1. Not an AI 2. Must be on the cliffs 3. Must be able to have private ceremony/reception (and only 1 per day) 4. Must have reasonable prices (both wedding package and rooms for guests) 5. Must allow me to choose my own vendors if I want

For my first dance with my dad, I used Roisin Murphy's 'Scarlet Ribbons.' I've not seen it anywhere on any wedding board before, but I loved it, it was perfect, and he loved it too. Here are the lyrics: From the cradle to the throne My flesh and my bones Is that the way it's supposed to be How the story goes? Ribbons and bows Like a thorn on a rose When the one man who gave it all to you Has to let you go He found for me scarlet ribbons Scarlet ribbons for my hair What becomes of a father's love When another has his daughter's love Don't you know they'll never be above? I'll always be your little girl It's all borrowed time And you always said I would regret it If I grew up too fast But my heart is strong and true I'm doing fine The things that you said I won't forget them I'll do as you ask And always play fair for you You found for me scarlet ribbons Those scarlet ribbons for my hair What becomes of a father's love When another has his daughter's love Don't you know they'll never be above? I'll always be your little girl There's a part of you In every part of me (should know better) Maybe you should know I won't let that go As long as I can cry on your shoulder Won't be growing up Just older You have got to let me go You found for me scarlet ribbons Those scarlet ribbons for my hair What becomes of a father's love When another has his daughter's love Don't you know they'll never be here but I'll always be your little girl I'll always be, always be your little girl Always be, always be your little girl Always be, always be your little girl Always be your little girl You have got to let it go, oh oh You have got to let it go You have got to let it go, oh You have got to let it go You have got to let it go, oh oh You have got to let it go

Ceremony Loyalty – Me’shell N’degeocello Over the Rainbow – Israel Kamakawiwo’ole Linus and Lucy – Schroeder’s Greatest Hits Dinner Island in the Sun – Weezer (introduce wedding party) Champagne Supernova – Oasis Come Rain or Come Shine – BB King and Eric Clapton All Is Full of Love – Bjork Little Wing – The Jimi Hendrix Experience Wild Horses – Rolling Stones Kokomo – Beach Boys The Perfect Girl – The Cure Learning To Fly – Tom Petty & The Heartbreakers Throne of Gold – Steel Pulse Glory Box – Portishead Glycerine – Bush Stuck in A Moment You Can’t Get Out Of – U2 Summertime – Janis Joplin Tiny Dancer – Elton John Tonight – Smashing Pumpkins Love Song – The Cure Hymn 43 – Jethro Tull And I Love Her – The Beatles Piano Man – Billy Joel Only in Dreams – Weezer Reception I’m Yours – Jason Mraz (first dance) Scarlet Ribbons – Roisin Murphy (father/daughter) Teach Your Children (mother/son) Just Dance – Lady Gaga White Wedding – Billy Joel That Was A Crazy Game of Poker – OAR Underneath It All – No Doubt Lay Lady Lay – Bob Dylan Steppin’ Out – Steel Pulse Come on Eileen – Dexy’s Midnight Runners Rock the Casbah – The Clash The Sweet Escape – Gwen Stefani Temperature – Sean Paul Stuck In the Middle With You – Bob Dylan Beast of Burden – Rolling Stones Rough Boy – ZZ Top Wonderwall – Oasis Slow Ride – Foghat Kung Fu Fighting – Carl Douglas Are You Gonna Be My Girl – Jet Santeria – Sublime Poker Face – Lady Gaga Hey Ya! – Outkast Turn Your Lights Down Low – Lauryn Hill (ft. Bob Marley) Bold As Love – Jimi Hendrix Wonderful Tonight – Eric Clapton Lovestoned – Justin Timberlake Can’t Take My Eyes Off Of You – Lauryn Hill Float On – Modest Mouse Like A Prayer – Madonna Fat Bottomed Girls – Queen Up On Cripple Creek – The Band I Walk The Line – Johnny Cash Earth Crisis – Steel Pulse No Woman, No Cry – Bob Marley Everlong – Foo Fighters Is This Love – Bob Marley What is And What Should Never Be – Led Zeppelin Caress Me Down – Sublime Mannish Boy – Muddy Waters American Girl – Tom Petty & The Heartbreakers Everyday People – Sly & The Family Stone Here Comes Your Man – Pixies Bossman – Lucky Boys Confusion When I’m Sixty-Four – Beatles Wedding Song – Bob Dylan

For us, it was between 'Beatles - Blackbird' or 'Crosby, Stills & Nash - Teach Your Children.' We chose Teach Your Children - his mom was very pleased.

I'm in contact with Stephanie, but if there are any other brides out there considering the Negril Escape... Just got married at Negril Escape Resort and Spa on April 18th - I've been too busy with work to post a proper review, but would be happy to answer any questions. Hopefully a review will be up soon, but you can reach me at [email protected] in the meantime.

chickadee024 - did your guests tell you about how much the zipline cost them? who did they do it with? i'm also interested in knowing the cost of renting the scooter (and the length for the rental) and the cost for visiting the Appleton Rum Factory. thanks! Sorry it took so long to post answers! I work for our state health department and things were a little crazy there... The guests said that their zipline trip ran about $90 per person. They had originally been told that they would be ziplining at a place in Negril, but ended up closer to Montego Bay. Not sure if they would recommend again.... Plus, we had some guests go to Ocho Rios and they said the ziplining looked better there. I think they went with Divine Tours, but I'm not totally sure. The scooter rental was awesome. I think we paid $110 to rent it for 3 days, and it was well worth the money. Not only did it give us a chance to see the island better, but we were able to make runs to the grocery and bank much easier. I asked my husband (sugar daddy) how much the Appleton Rum tour was, and he thought it was between $30-$40 - which could be a little off, since all he could think about was Rum Cream. A little expensive, but worth the money in my opinion. Not only is the factory pretty cool, but the trip there was priceless. It was a chance to see the true Jamaican countryside, out of the tourist traps. Also, I think we passed through the Royal Palm Reserve and we stopped on Bamboo Avenue.

Just got back from my wedding in Negril. Here are some of the things we (or our guests) did: 1. renting jet-skis on the Negril beach - this was fun, as I have never before had the chance to actually drive a jetski, but we got cheated out of our time. There's a guy nicknamed Tony Montana that hangs around Margaritaville, and we paid him about $40 to jet-ski for 1/2 hour. They called us back in after only 15 minutes...we had proof with the time stamps on the camera, but didn't get money back or more time on the jet-ski. 2. renting a scooter to jet around the west end - this was most excellent. Saves money on cabs, and you really haven't lived until you zipped around behind your husband on the left side of the road, honking like your life depends on it, after dark and in a foreign country. 3. Zipline - we didn't get a chance to do this, but we had 14 guests take a trip to do it. They seemed to have a blast, and the pictures are pretty fun. 4. YS Falls - This was absolutely gorgeous. The drive to the falls takes you through the countryside to see 'real' Jamaica. And the falls ($18/person) were stunningly beautiful. We definitely felt like we were in the rainforest/jungle, and they had a really nice park to go with the falls. 5. Appleton Rum Factory tour - This was also a good time, especially for my husband. A little expensive, but they have open tasting at the end of the tour. The peacocks on the grounds are gorgeous. Let me know if you have any questions about the activities!

My fiance and I are doing a foxtrot to Jason Mraz - I'm Yours. We posted an ad on Craigslist for a dance coreographer, explained the details and timeline (which was only about 6 weeks), and posted a price ($15). We got a response asap and have had a few lessons so far. Good luck!