Hello Ladies,
Valentin Imperial Maya is an absolutely beautiful resort. To answer some of your questions. It's not a done deal that they will not be able to hold catholic ceremonies at the resort. Guillermo (WC) informed me that they are awaiting to hear from the bishop. I have not given a deposit yet I just blocked my wedding date. My wedding is a year away, perhaps that is why they have not asked for a deposit.
As soon as I get an answer in regard to the ceremony I will keep you updated.
As I recall the Lobster Pot is one of the outside restaurants. Guillermo did mention to me that this can be an option for the reception. They are very flexible as to the location of the reception. If you want to have the reception in one of the restaurants if you have to let them know far in advance so that they are able to make accomodtions and provide your wedding party some privacy.
If you have other questions please feel free to pm me.